Hi, my name is Cheryl Megdall and I want to personally thank you for visiting My Ideal Husband.

Let me first say that my story is your story. I truly believe that my transition into the ideal relationship for me was effortless because I had taken the time to know myself. I allowed myself to be present and enjoy the single life. And I consciously used the principles of the Law of Attraction.

What I love about the process that I went through is that I believe that any woman can do it, including you. The process that I took myself through was sometimes difficult and required courage, but it was also fun and joyful to think about what it was that I wanted in a relationship.

How Did I Get Here?

I have always believed in my heart that I deserved the life I am now living. A couple of years ago, after one of my morning jogs, I found myself sitting in our backyard swing wondering how did I get here?

Did all of my wishing, visualizing and personal-development come about through design or was it simply pure luck and I arrived at this place in time by accident?

My mind drifted back to my single days of dancing on the coffee table when no one was looking. In those moments I fully embraced the freedom I enjoyed. I owned my own home. I made good money and I had no responsibilities outside of myself. But I knew one day those times would be different.

I would take the opportunity to dream about a different life for myself. I would create a vision of how I wanted my life to be, the kind of relationship that I wanted to have and what kind of a person I needed to become to attract the ideal man for me. I had faith that I would live in a home that had more than just my own laughter at a great movie. I had faith that there would be more footsteps to the bedroom than just my own.

As I sat in my swing, retracing the steps that had led me to where I am, I found myself reminded of my journal, something that I hadn’t thought about for some time.

My Husband Journal – Where It All Started

Let’s face it, it’s a desire of most women to find their ideal husband. But we all know that wishing and wanting is not always as easy as finding and having.

Before I had any thoughts of writing a book or creating a community for women searching for their ideal husband, I had written a personal journal about the ideal man I wanted to be with. I called this My Husband Journal. This journal was my own personal road map. It was never intended to be a book anyone other than myself would read.

I had found myself at a juncture in my life where I knew things had to change. I started to think about my ideal relationship. I began to think about what that would look and feel like. Snuggled in my bed with a glass of wine I began to write. For several more months I would write in my journal. But the changes that would take place didn’t happen just because I was writing my thoughts and desires in a journal.

I had also created my own visual storyboard of the things I desired to have in my life. I spent countless hours improving who I am as a woman. The commitment of doing this opened up my heart, mind and soul to a whole new way of living. From the way I treated myself to the way I handled my past and approached my present, I began to experience a profound change the moment I realized the kind of man I wanted to attract.

And you know what? Today my reality is so much better than I could ever have imagined for myself.

I would never have guessed that in less than two years after writing this journal that my single days would turn into days filled with heart-felt conversation, laughter, diapers, Elmo, piles of laundry, and the most of all, a fulfilling and unconditional love that I share with my husband.

It’s Not Luck – It’s a Process

I know today that luck has nothing to do with attracting your ideal husband. I’ve learned that it is much more a process than it is a destination. A feeling of divine inspiration flowed through me as I sat on the swing, retracing my steps of how I arrived where I am, what I had to do.

It was my “ah-ha” moment. And so I knew what I had to do. I would revisit my journal. This time, however, what I would write would not be as much for me, as it would be for you and other women searching for their ideal husband and to live the life of their dreams. Over the next 18 months I would fill in the pages with my story, along with a more detailed step-by-step outline for how any woman, no matter where she is in life, can attract her ideal husband.

During the course of writing the book I would engage in conversation with my fellow co-workers and countless other women at events I attended. Validating the path I had chosen to go down, I found that there was a lot of interest in how I had come to find my husband. Many women were in similar situations as mine, looking for love. I would tell them to write their own husband book, but they were too eager to read mine and kept asking when it was going to be finished.

Like attracting your ideal husband, writing a book is much more about the process than it is the destination. During the process of writing the book I also discovered that once women got their hands on the book – now what? Where do they go for continued support, inspiration and guidance? The answer is the My Ideal Husband community.

With that said, I am excited to share with you the process that I went through to find my ideal husband. You will be able to go through the same process that I did to help identity what you would like to experience with the man who will move your heart and soul.

Along the way, with access to the My Ideal Husband community, I have opened the doors to the voices of other women and men too, as they provide deep insight and inspiration into how they have cleared the path in their life to discover and live the life of their dreams

With all my love,

Cheryl Megdall